How can I satisfy my boyfriend without having sex?
It is not your responsibility to satisfy any man sexually until that man has married you. "Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband" (I Corinthians 7:1-2). Men have built-in abilities to relieve themselves when necessary. Any boy telling you otherwise is simply trying to talk you into sex by getting you to compromise a step at a time.