Question

There is this guy who lives in another county. I met him this summer when I visited that country. I fell in love with him, and he told me he love me too. After I came back I went to camp, so we couldn't talk. When I came back we barely talked for a week, and then he disappeared. He was never online. Lately he was back online and I texted him. He read my messages but didn't reply. What should I do? How can I grab his attention again?


Answer

Both of you were too quick to declare yourselves in love, since love is something that takes time to develop. But a relationship is built on the interests of two people. He was interested in you for a while, but lost interest. Likely he has become interested in someone who is close to him. You will just need to look for someone else because this boy wasn't a keeper.