Last updated on October 22, 2020
Question:
I’m 16. A few days ago, my boyfriend and I were performing mutual oral sex. He ejaculated in my mouth and I swallowed. As I got up, the tip of his penis accidentally brushed my genital region. What are the chances of getting pregnant, if I washed and urinated immediately afterward? Please, it’s urgent. [Yes, I do realize it’s a sin.]
Answer:
Only 16 years old and already cavalier about being an unpaid whore for a boy. “A foolish woman is clamorous; she is simple, and knows nothing. For she sits at the door of her house, on a seat by the highest places of the city, to call to those who pass by, who go straight on their way: “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here”; and as for him who lacks understanding, she says to him, “Stolen water is sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant.” But he does not know that the dead are there, that her guests are in the depths of hell” (Proverbs 9:13-18).
The chance of pregnancy is extremely small, but it is not zero. While urine is acidic and will kill sperm, urinating after sex will not kill the sperm inside you because your urinary tube is not in your vagina. It is a separate opening just above your vagina. Depending on where his penis touched you, it is remotely possible that a drop of semen containing sperm could have gotten near your vaginal penning. Sperm swim, and quite fast, so the possibility can’t be completely ruled out.
I don’t know why this answer would be urgent unless you want a chance to abort the child before it develops. I guess you don’t want an inconvenient reminder that you willingly committed fornication, so murder a preferable option in your mind and well worth the payment for fooling around doing things you claim to know are wrong.
But the chance of passing a sexually transmitted disease is near 100% because many of them can be passed by skin-to-skin contact or by fluids, and you had both types of contact. Oral sex makes pregnancy less likely, but it doesn’t stop the spread of sexually transmitted diseases. Syphilis, chlamydia, HPV, and a host of other diseases are just as happy taking up residence in your throat as in your vagina. “Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; he who does so destroys his own soul. Wounds and dishonor he will get, and his reproach will not be wiped away” (Proverbs 6:32-33). The same goes for the woman as well.
Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and fun within a marriage. But in a marriage, you don’t have to worry about diseases and you won’t care if you happen to get pregnant. But you are making a mockery of something that is quite serious and you are putting to risk yourself, your temporary stud, and the potential life of an innocent child. You think are acting like adults by having sex, but all your doing is acting like an animal — taking no thought about the consequences of your action. I do hope you repent of your sins and turn your life over to Christ before you suffer consequences for your carelessness.
Question:
Alason is a typo. My real name is Alison. Please change it to this if you are going to post this on your website. And I am married. Married minors do exist.
Answer:
Alason is what you call yourself in your email. Now you are adding lying to your list of sins because you said “boyfriend” and stated that what you did was a sin. Nor would a married woman be worried about a very remote chance of pregnancy. Either now (more likely) or before, you lied. I can’t say I’m impressed. “But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death” (Revelation 21:8).