Is he in love with me?

Last updated on November 2, 2020

Question:

My cousin (20) and I (17) used to cuddle and flirt every time we meet. We do that when our parents are not around. We meet once a year. We haven’t expressed our love for each other. Is he in love with me? 

Answer:

Most likely not. He enjoys the sexual stimulation that comes from cuddling and flirting with you, but this is not love. See:

There is no way you can have love from brief meetings once a year.