My fiance says we need to have sex because he is suffering from too much sperm in his body

Last updated on November 2, 2020


Please, my future husband is suffering from too much sperm in his body to the extent that he wants us to have sex. What is the solution, please?


Your future husband is deceiving you, so that he can have sex without being married to you.

All males, starting sometime in their teenage years, begin producing semen and sperm. This production continues for the rest of their lives. The glands that produce semen can only store so much before the excess semen has to be ejaculated. This happens during the night during sleep or a boy can purposely trigger an ejaculation through masturbation. As his glands get full, his sex drive rises, so in one sense he may be correct that he feels a compulsion to have sex, but he is wrong to tell you that he needs sex for relief. He knows very well how to relieve himself. He has been doing it for years and he doesn’t need anyone else to get that relief.

Thus, the solution to his demand is that after you and he get married, then he can have sex with you, but until that time, he needs to continue relieving himself as he has been doing and not involve you in sin; otherwise, he won’t have you as a girlfriend, let alone as a future wife.


Thank you so much for your advice. I am very grateful.