Should I ask God to bring the boy I had sex with back into my life?

Last updated on October 31, 2020


I am deeply blessed to find your email address, sir. I have some questions piling up and I can’t seem to get the answers.

A few months ago I had a break up with my boyfriend, and I depressed. Instead of looking to God for peace, I went to another guy to seek company. We started texting each other and one day we ended up committing fornication. After that day I repented and grew more closer to God, but the question is: should I pray that God will bring him into my life? We never dated. We were just being each other’s company.


You haven’t mentioned anything that would lead a person to conclude you found a man who would make a good husband. All I see is a boy who took advantage of your depression to satisfy himself with sex. That isn’t good quality in a husband.